Thursday, April 28, 2011

"Love who loves you."

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you are trying to make someone you love return your affection?  This can be so frustrating!  How can it be that this person who you care so deeply for doesn't feel the same way? Well, unfortunately it happens. Some times the object of our desire does not feel the same way about us.

Some people even find this is a pattern in their life.  They find that every time they fall in love that person rejects them in some way. This can be devestating especially when it happens over and over again.  Maybe the solution to this problem lies in the quote "Love those who love you." ?  Maybe we need to raise the bar a little before we give our hearts totally to another? How do you know it's time to give your whole self? What are your requirements that need to be met in order for you to know it's safe to make yourself vulnerable with another?